Should I Be Explicit?

Some time ago, my brother asked “Why don’t you get explicit?” I knew what he meant. Why don’t I really go after television personalities like Pat Robertson? It’s true. I do not particularly care for Pat Robertson. He has certainly provided plenty of ammunition.

Just visit a political blog like Alan Colmes‘ site. Alan is not the only one; he’s just a little nicer about it. It would be easy to do; however, I would ask you this question. What would it solve by ganging up on the poor guy?

While I certainly have my disagreement with Pat Robertson and I’ve even written a blog post on the issue. “Pat Robertson?? Here We Go, Again” is one example. However, there is a difference between disagreeing with someone and verbally attacking the person.

I’ll debate an issue; especially if it may interest the readers. However, this is not to be confused with attacking someone. From my own experiences, I have never derived any benefits from sites using such tactics. How about I get real specific?

Several years ago, I was desperately seeking a few good Bible teachers. I was hungry to know more about my faith. I desired to go beyond what the Catholic church taught me. In the late 90s, I went online to see what I could discover. What did I discover?

I found a dizzying array of opinion sites that claim to be defending the faith. Who are they kidding? Though there are legitimate apologetic sites; however these guys were not it. I would often feel confused and fearful, after a visit to their web site. It got to the point, where I didn’t know what to think.

I asked my Father, “What should I do?” An idea came to mind. “Do a search on Charles Stanley. I was an avid viewer of Dr. Charles Stanley’s program. I thought, “What kind of negative things could there be about him?” I was in for a shock! Here’s a current search result for Dr. Stanley.

It seems no one is immune. These clowns profess to know Jesus and act like they don’t. Have they not read what Paul says of those who would devour one another?

14 For the whole Law is fulfilled in one word, in the statement, “You shall love your neighbor as yourself.” 15 But if you bite and devour one another, take care that you are not consumed by one another.

16 But I say, walk by the Spirit, and you will not carry out the desire of the flesh. [Galatians 5:14-16]

These people were not engaging in an honest debate about the issue. They were more interested in exposing their opinions; rather than actually helping people. How am I helped when reading an attack style blog post?

I was never helped by such sites. This is why I don’t engage in such explicit writings. I want the readers to benefit from my writings. Here is what Paul says in Ephesian 4:29:

29 Let no unwholesome word proceed from your mouth, but only such a word as is good for edification according to the need of the moment, so that it will give grace to those who hear.

The above Scripture contains some great pearls of wisdom for any blog writers. Am I opposed to differing opinions? Not! It’s okay to disagree; however, it’s not okay to maliciously attack someone.

I don’t hate Pat Robertson; I simply disagree with his politics. I am not afraid to admit when Pat Robertson is right.When I visited those attack sites, a question came to mind. Can they admit when Bill Johnson is right? Wold they acknowledge Frank Viola has a point?

What should we do? Here is what John says in 1 John 2:26-27:

26 These things I have written to you concerning those who are trying to deceive you. 27 As for you, the anointing which you received from Him abides in you, and you have no need for anyone to teach you; but as His anointing teaches you about all things, and is true and is not a lie, and just as it has taught you, you abide in Him.

Believers are given a precious gift, the Holy Spirit. Over the years, the Holy Spirit has helped in my reading of Scripture. The Spirit has shined a light on what a Bible teacher has said. He will expose when a teaching is of human origin, of God or demonic.

The Holy Spirit was a big help when listening to Joyce Meyers. The Spirit guided my understanding of biblical authority when reading Frank Viola’s book. All it takes is an ear that’s willing to listen.

As I have been saying, “I’d rather encourage and build up my readers. I’m not into tearing down people.” I’d prefer to speak the truth with sincere love. Am I not supposed to love my neighbors; as myself.

Conflict: A Wonderful Problem

That’s correct. Conflict, a wonderful problem. Why am I calling conflicts, a good problem? First, I don’t mean the conflicts stemming from violence. I am sure you guessed that. I am speaking of the conflicts that arises on blog sites and among friends.  Don’t be afraid. Continue reading

The Wayward Cart

Recently, I began volunteering at Community Reformed Church of Whiting, NJ. They  run a food pantry, a clothe closet and a hot meal, during the week. It appears that they mainly serve my area. It’s a pleasure to help this church in meeting the needs of those struggling in Whiting.

I have heard how God can use a donkey, to teach someone a lesson. How about a wayward cart? Continue reading

Be Not So Hasty!

As I consider what to write, I found myself reading Proverbs 29. When I read Proverbs 29:20, I had to smile.  The verse was both timely and poetic.  It is poetic when you consider what I am doing.  First, here is the Scripture that I’m talking about:

20 Do you see a man who is hasty in his words?
There is more hope for a fool than for him.

After I paused to consider this, I drilled a little deeper.  Thanks to BibleGateway, I came across a good follow up and a good advice for any blogger. Here is what James 1:19 says:

19 This you know, my beloved brethren. But everyone must be quick to hear, slow to speak and slow to anger;

It is true that James is not talking to bloggers; however it does fit.  When it comes to blogging, it is very easy to rush forward with a comment on someone’s blog or post a reactionary response on our own site.

I have a friend who likes to provoke people on his Facebook page or his blog.  He is a committed Christian or should I say, “a follower of Jesus”.  When it comes to the status quo; he is no fan of the institutional church.  As such, my friend will say something with the goal of provoking his readers in thinking.

However, this has not always been the case.  What would happen, if we apply James advice about being quick to listen and slow to speak? Would we not ask “What is he up to?” Would we not ask the Holy Spirit and not be so hasty in our words and react. On the Internet, it is very easy to rush into judgement.

It is time for the other shoe. As a blogger, I am told to post something on a daily basis or close to it. It is not an easy thing to do.  For the want of blog traffic, it is quite tempting to rush forward with something to say.  In my hurry, it is quite easy to miss what God is saying through His Word.

My friend, timethief has often pointed to the needs for quality posting and not being so hasty with the written word.  She would also point out that it isn’t the quantity of posts; rather it is the quality of the posts on a person’s blog.  Could it be that time read those Scripture and applied it?

For me, I am being gently reminded of the need to wait and not rush forward with an ill thought out blog post. At least, I hope this is the case. :)

The Diligent Hand

Recently, I have been reminded of an old proverb:

4Poor is he who works with a negligent hand,
But the (A)hand of the diligent makes rich.  [Proverbs 10:4 NASB]

Some time ago, I had visited the site run by a woman with the handle, TimeThief.  From Time’s OneCoolsitebloggingtips site, one could gain some very helpful guidance for building and maintaining a great blog site.  Almost everyday, Time would update her site with some solid insights on blogging wisely.  Yet, this story isn’t about Time; rather it’s about one who is diligent in the work before them.

I wish that I could say the same for myself; however it is first part of the proverb that I must take.  I have not been diligent in my writings and the up keeping of this blog. As such, my writings and the blog has suffered.  Not only this, others have suffered too.  Our negligence will often snowball and impact others and not just the initial person. Continue reading